Are You on the Successful Side or the Unsuccessful Side?

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All of us want to be on the side of success.

I was organizing some digital files this week, and I came across this chart by MaryEllen Tribby, a high level Business Coach.  I see no research collaboration, but I think it’s great food for thought.

Personally, I do most items on the Successful Side and some on the Unsuccessful Side.  For example, I don’t keep a journal, and I do watch TV every day.

I decided to share this with you to see if this resonates for you.

Successful people

• Have a sense of gratitude
• Compliment others
• Forgive others
• Give other people credit for their victories
• Talk about ideas
• Ready every day
• Accept responsibilities for their failures
• Keep a journal
• Want to success
• Share information and data
• Keep a To BE List
• Set goals
• Develop life plans
• Exude joy
• Embrace change
• Keep a To Do List
• Learn continuously
• Operate from a transformational perspective

Unsuccessful people

• Criticize
• Have a sense of entitlement
• Hold a grudge
• Take all the credit
• Blame others for their failures
• Watch TV every day
• Don’t keep a journal
• Think they know it all
• Fear change
• Fly by the seat of their pants
• Operate from a transactional perspective
• Talk about people
• Secretly hope others fail
• Hoard information and data
• Don’t know what they want to be
• Never set goals
• Exude anger
• Don’t read every day

MaryEllen Tribby: The Success Indicator

How we deal with mistakes and failure is also key to being on the Successful Side.

Using Mistakes and Failure – Foundational to Success

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